Michaelc2k9, 51

Now for something completely different... First off, I'm not a redhead. My hair is a very dark brown, which most think is black. I've never seen an unattractive woman with red hair. I've recently relocated from San Francisco, CA and had lived there for the past 14 years while I worked in Silicon Valley. I am a disabled Gulf War Veteran (due to a back injury that forces me to lie down and stretch after several hours of activity. Typically no one can tell that I have an injury) and I have two boys that currently live with their mother in CA (ages 8 & 6) that I couldn't be prouder of. I'm fairly outgoing, like & have a few tattoos, enjoy travel, and my friends told me that they believe I'm funny as heck (admit I'm silly & sarcastic sometimes), rational, compassionate, positive, & confident. They stated that my best quality is that I'm honest (but I admit I do tell a few white lies to save feelings when needed). Many people say that it's too hard to be honest, but I feel like you can't build even a friendship let alone a relationship when it's based on lies. I'm told that I'm a good listener, so my friends tend to ask my opinion or just talk until they figure out the issue themselves. I enjoy stimulating conversations, treating others as I like to be treated, being self-sufficient & keeping fit.