Donaldcarbary, 33

My Hair: is red, slowly darkening as I age. Still you can see a lot of color in my beard, or when my hair is in natural sunlight or under a microscope.

What I like to do: I work out not for vanity (okay, slightly) but because I started it as a way to improve myself in ways I could measurably see. I'll take biking over going for a run any day. Do you lift? Because I'd love to have a gym buddy to coach on.

My Hobbies: I am a fan of superheroes and anti-heroes. As if I wasn't exuding enough nerd, I love Pokemon. I am the sort of gamer who has to collect everything I see on the scree, and open every treasure chest. I like strategy games, or stories with interesting characters and back stories. My favorite shows are Castle, NCIS, and Criminal Minds.

How My Mind Works: I have a dry sense of humor and wit. I like overpaying for handmade things, over tipping wait staff, and trying to undercut mean businesses that treat their workers and customers unfairly.

I am like a schooling fish. I like to be in a group where I have a defined standing. I am overcautious sometimes. I love to plan and organize, creating order out of chaos. I am an even numbers sort of guy.

I like to do nice things for people because it makes me feel good. Though this sometimes catches up to me because I really like to overburden myself and try to please everyone, and I end up burning out instead of looking out for number 1.

The girl I am looking for: will be one who introduces me to new experiences, who will teach me new things, yet also be a student. I want them to have their own dreams, their own wants and desires, someone who will set goals and work hard on obtaining them. I want some one who understands that actions have consequences, not constantly having their heads in the clouds that they forgo earthly duties (sometimes is okay) or be a hot mess. Also, to date someone, I would have to be physically and mentally attracted to someone, not one or