2xbdrummer, 51

never judge a book by its cover..... i do very much miss that deep connection with someone sweet. the intimacy and caring about another, as well as the physical touch, comfort and fun of being with someone..but something sweet nonetheless. i am a very sensuous and attentive lover, who loves to please as much as to be pleased. i would like a comfortable woman that enjoys holding hands, hugging, kissing. in other words, i don't mind a very touchy feely woman who "craves affection, attention, and intimacy. " ...doesn't matter as long as we're in each other company.
you must "want a relationship" and have "free time" to invest fully into a serious "ltr" and commitment. i'm not looking for a one-night stand, ---, or friends (as great as they can be, but they still feel and leave a person unfulfilled). i am not opposed to dating and making friends but, i like to also have the options of if things do work out that it would lead to it. i want a woman that wants real love and commitment, not afraid to be family orientated...(i'm a single father of one (i can't truly fathom a thought without him or the correct words to describe what he truly means to me). he is 4, and he is my world, life (and that's not even the half of it), ( i would like for you be the that same reason), and also to mention not afraid of it. i'm open minded, listens to all types of music, a very honest, spontaneous, straightforward man who wants to settle down and commit with one woman so i can love, respect, and accept her for her, even with all her flaws. the woman i'm seeking must want a serious ltr and commitment, so please no bullsh*t, bullsh*t drama, lies, or childish games. also if you claim to be open minded and/or looking for a relationship, "then be open minded and be looking.. not open minded with horse blinders on..how are you going to know unless you try..."no sacrifice, no victory". remember, it takes two people to build a serious long-term relationship t